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FIRST VISIT

Welcome to your child’s new pediatric dental clinic.  The first appointment is very important to me.  My goal is to create a fun, supportive, non-fearful, and caring environment that allows your child to develop a positive and healthy outlook on dentistry.  

At our first appointment we will examine your child’s teeth and gums and take any necessary x-rays.  For most children this will be a fun experience.  Parents play an important role in getting children started with a good attitude toward dental care.  One of the useful things that you can do to help is to be completely natural and easygoing when you tell your child about their appointment.  This approach enables children to view their dental visit as an enjoyable opportunity to stay healthy.

Your cooperation is appreciated. Remember, good general health depends partly on the development of good habits, such as sensible eating, sleeping routines, and exercise.  Dental health also depends on good habits, such as proper brushing, regular dental visits, and good diet.  We will have a chance to discuss these points during your child’s appointment.  

Please remember to bring your ticket to the appointment so your child can be eligible to be part of  the CAVITY FREE CLUB!

HOW PARENTS CAN HELP

Parents during the dental appointment:

1. Help seat your child.

2. Provide a hand for your child to hold when they need it.

3. Keep siblings, not being seen, with you at all times or with a babysitter.

4. Turn cellular phones off when in the treatment area.  

5. Let your child do all the talking.

Instructions to the parent:

1. Several days before the appointment, tell your child casually that you both will be visiting the dentist. Don't force the issue; don't be over-sympathetic to the child or display any fear or misgiving in your voice.

2. Please do not voice your own personal fears in front of the child as this often causes fear in your child.

3. Explain about dental visits in a positive matter-of-fact manner, telling the child that the dentist is a nice and helpful person.

4. Don't bribe your child into going to the dentist because this will alarm your child in thinking that there must be danger ahead.

5. Don't use dentistry as a threat or punishment for your child. Always be positive.

6. Don't promise your child that the dentist will or will not do certain things. The dentist should not be placed in a compromising situation where he is limited in what he can do for your child.

7. Don't ask your child if they want dental treatment. Give them choices instead, for example: "Would you like me to brush your teeth first, or Dr. Thoa?"

8. Once you are at the dental office, please follow the dentist's instructions closely. If you do as the dentist asks, then your child will follow your example.

9. Bring your child to the dental clinic for regular check-ups every six months.

 

INFORMATION SHEET for PARENTS ACCOMPANYING

THEIR CHILDREN IN THE TREATMENT ROOM

As a pediatric dentist, I want to do my very best for your child and this means asking for your help.  When you are in the treatment room you can help your child work safely and harmoniously with me by following these few guidelines.

1. Please refrain from talking to your child. There are times when I need to give specific instructions and the child will become confused if many voices are telling him different things. Also, while I know it is natural for you to speak soothingly to your child when he cries, when in the dental chair this may he counterproductive (if you say it's "okay", it might not really be for him/her). Remember, he may not know why he is crying, and may cry harder when the parent is alarmed.  I will give your child many "hug breaks".

2. Please transfer your authority to me. It is less stressful for the child if he can recognize one clear authority and ultimately I need to be in charge of the situation. You can model this behavior for your child by listening to me and doing what I ask. Then your child will be more receptive to me. There may come a point where I need to ask you to leave the room. Please do so, knowing that you are just leaving out of their sight, not out of the room.  Remember that even though you have temporarily transferred authority to me as a behavior management tool, at all times you are the absolute, final authority for your child.  My duty is to deliver the best dental care for your child with your permission.

3. Please understand the accepted methods of behavioral control that dentists often use. One of them is voice control. I need to modulate my voice depending on the situation, from gentle to stem, in order to elicit cooperation from the child. Know in advance that if I speak sternly, I do so from concern and not out of anger.

4. Please communicate your feelings with me. You need to tell me honestly what you expect as a parent and I will tell you what I can do as a dentist. If you are uncomfortable about any methods of behavior management, please inform me before we start treatment. If you need to discuss a concern during the procedure, please ask me to stop and I will gladly do so. Do not grab my arms or hands when I have instruments in them.

I love treating children and find it very rewarding to be able to restore a happy, healthy child's smile.  Please help me gain cooperation from your child to have a wonderful dental experience.

 

 

 

 

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